When Essie Mae and Mama see Daddy during their final visit to Grandfather Moody, the tensions between the family come to a head. Mama’s refusal to accept Daddy’s help highlights her commitment to her independence, but it also shows her strong sense of pride. Though Mama (justifiably) does not wish to be involved with Daddy, the money could at least briefly make a difference in the children’s lives and health. Essie Mae is too young to understand Mama’s reasoning for refusing Daddy’s help, and her anger at Mama is one of many disagreements between mother and daughter throughout the memoir.