Emily dismisses Amir’s criticisms of Islam, even though he’s actually lived under the religion, while she never has. Instead, Emily chooses to only see the aspects of Muslim culture that she
wants to see: the beautiful architecture and art, not the actual religious values that Amir takes issue with. Emily seems to think of Islam as different, otherworldly, and exotic, revealing her Orientalism (a tendency for Western people to view Eastern cultures in a patronizing or exploitative way). Abe, meanwhile, seems to be stuck between feeling ashamed of his Muslim identity (as evidenced by his name change and typical American style of dress) and wanting to connect more deeply with his culture and religion. The way Amir snaps at Abe once again shows that others talking over him about Islam triggers his anger—which he struggles to control when it surfaces.