Dogs represent the benefits of positivity and selflessness. Carnegie points out how two aspects of dogs’ demeanors make them easily able to win people over, and how people can replicate these same behaviors. First, dogs are more interested in others (particularly humans) than they are in themselves. The fact that they wag their tails and show how much they like a person makes them, in turn, easy to love. Carnegie points out that for this reason, a dog is one of the only animals that doesn’t have to work for a living (in contrast to a cow, which gives milk, for example). Dogs are simply expected to be humans’ best friends. As such, he suggests that by adopting dogs’ attitudes—becoming genuinely interested in others rather than trying to be interesting themselves—people can win over others much more easily.
Dogs are also endearing because they smile. Most dogs are very glad to see people, instantly bringing positivity into people’s lives and making them feel like they are contributing to the dogs’ well-being. Similarly, if people smile, they imply that others are important to them and make them happy, which makes other people feel good and want to interact with them more. Thus, dogs illustrate how positivity and interest in others can help people “win friends,” per the book’s title.
Dogs Quotes in How to Win Friends and Influence People
Why read this book to find out how to win friends? Why not study the technique of the greatest winner of friends the world has ever known? Who is he? You may meet him tomorrow coming down the street. When you get within ten feet of him, he will begin to wag his tail. If you stop and pat him, he will almost jump out of his skin to show you how much he likes you. And you know that behind this show of affection on his part, there are no ulterior motives: he doesn’t want to sell you any real estate, and he doesn’t want to marry you.
Did you ever stop to think that a dog is the only animal that doesn’t have to work for a living? A hen has to lay eggs, a cow has to give milk, and a canary has to sing. But a dog makes his living by giving you nothing but love.