Chase can talk about football with Frank and help Helene with dolls simultaneously, which indicates that he doesn’t need to choose between stereotypically masculine and stereotypically feminine pursuits: he’s capable of both. Yet when entertaining Helene triggers in him a memory of bullying her, he chooses to focus on football and define himself as a “player” to distract himself from his previous bad behavior, a mental move that suggests he may have used his identity as a football star to repress his own misgivings about his cruel, macho, bullying behavior.