A Prayer for Owen Meany

by

John Irving

John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright Character Analysis

John’s mother, who is killed by Owen Meany’s foul ball when the boys were just eleven years old. She had a gifted singing voice and a stunning figure of which her sister, Martha, was always jealous. John compares Tabitha to a cat, saying she looked perfectly touchable in theory, but rarely wished to be touched, by nature. She was very sweet-tempered, which made it difficult for anyone to stay angry at her for long. She wielded this to her advantage when she defied her parents’ wishes by not going to college and becoming pregnant from an illicit affair. Refusing to bow to scornful opinion, she raised her son proudly and never apologized for her choices. She firmly denied John’s father, Rev. Lewis Merrill, any say in their son’s life. She believed in doing what made her happy, and secretly performed in a dinner club in Boston once a week under the stage name “The Lady in Red.” When she met her future husband, Dan Needham, on the train, she trusted her judgment absolutely and knew she would marry him. She was very loving as well as being naturally lovable, and she showed enormous care and affection for Owen Meany, John’s best friend, who lacked for the same love and opportunities that John always had.

John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright Quotes in A Prayer for Owen Meany

The A Prayer for Owen Meany quotes below are all either spoken by John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright or refer to John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Fate and Predestination Theme Icon
).
Chapter 3 Quotes

It made [Owen] furious when I suggested that anything was an “accident”—especially anything that had happened to him; on the subject of predestination, Owen Meany would accuse Calvin of bad faith. There were no accidents; there was a reason for that baseball—just as there was a reason for Owen being small, and a reason for his voice. In Owen’s opinion, he had INTERRUPTED AN ANGEL, he had DISTURBED AN ANGEL AT WORK, he had UPSET THE SCHEME OF THINGS.

Related Characters: John Wheelwright (speaker), Owen Meany (speaker), John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright
Related Symbols: The Baseball, The Voice
Page Number: 105
Explanation and Analysis:

All those same crones, as black and hunchbacked as crows gathered around some roadkill—they came to the service as if to say: We acknowledge, O God, that Tabby Wheelwright was not allowed to get off scot-free.

Getting off “scot-free” was a cardinal crime in New Hampshire. And by the birdy alertness visible in the darting eyes of my grandmother’s crones, I could tell that—in their view—my mother had not escaped her just reward.

Related Characters: John Wheelwright (speaker), John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright, John’s Grandmother / Harriet Wheelwright
Page Number: 132
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 9 Quotes

Because he’d wished my mother dead, my father said, God had punished him; God had taught Pastor Merrill not to trifle with prayer. And I suppose that was why it had been so difficult for Mr. Merrill to pray for Owen Meany—and why he had invited us all to offer up our silent prayers to Owen, instead of speaking out himself. And he called Mr. and Mrs. Meany “superstitious”! Look at the world: look at how many of our peerless leaders presume to tell us that they know what God wants! It’s not God who’s fucked up, it’s the screamers who say they believe in Him and who claim to pursue their ends in His holy name!

Related Characters: John Wheelwright (speaker), Owen Meany, John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright, Rev. Lewis Merrill
Related Symbols: The Baseball
Page Number: 554
Explanation and Analysis:
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John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright Quotes in A Prayer for Owen Meany

The A Prayer for Owen Meany quotes below are all either spoken by John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright or refer to John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Fate and Predestination Theme Icon
).
Chapter 3 Quotes

It made [Owen] furious when I suggested that anything was an “accident”—especially anything that had happened to him; on the subject of predestination, Owen Meany would accuse Calvin of bad faith. There were no accidents; there was a reason for that baseball—just as there was a reason for Owen being small, and a reason for his voice. In Owen’s opinion, he had INTERRUPTED AN ANGEL, he had DISTURBED AN ANGEL AT WORK, he had UPSET THE SCHEME OF THINGS.

Related Characters: John Wheelwright (speaker), Owen Meany (speaker), John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright
Related Symbols: The Baseball, The Voice
Page Number: 105
Explanation and Analysis:

All those same crones, as black and hunchbacked as crows gathered around some roadkill—they came to the service as if to say: We acknowledge, O God, that Tabby Wheelwright was not allowed to get off scot-free.

Getting off “scot-free” was a cardinal crime in New Hampshire. And by the birdy alertness visible in the darting eyes of my grandmother’s crones, I could tell that—in their view—my mother had not escaped her just reward.

Related Characters: John Wheelwright (speaker), John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright, John’s Grandmother / Harriet Wheelwright
Page Number: 132
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 9 Quotes

Because he’d wished my mother dead, my father said, God had punished him; God had taught Pastor Merrill not to trifle with prayer. And I suppose that was why it had been so difficult for Mr. Merrill to pray for Owen Meany—and why he had invited us all to offer up our silent prayers to Owen, instead of speaking out himself. And he called Mr. and Mrs. Meany “superstitious”! Look at the world: look at how many of our peerless leaders presume to tell us that they know what God wants! It’s not God who’s fucked up, it’s the screamers who say they believe in Him and who claim to pursue their ends in His holy name!

Related Characters: John Wheelwright (speaker), Owen Meany, John’s Mother / Tabitha Wheelwright, Rev. Lewis Merrill
Related Symbols: The Baseball
Page Number: 554
Explanation and Analysis: