Ira Posner’s admiration for Nathan’s father, however perplexing it might be to Nathan, points to how heavily the stories a person tells themselves can shape their understanding of the world and inform what they remember and what they forget. Not feeling adequately supported by his own father, Ira found in Nathan’s father the care and belief he needed to thrive. This relationship mattered a great deal to him, and so he remembered it. Ira’s tragic admission about his younger brother’s mental health issues further points to the unknowability of other people—every family, it seems, has its own unhappy secrets.