Good Night, Mr. Tom

by

Michelle Magorian

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Biological Family vs. Chosen Family Theme Analysis

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Good Night, Mr. Tom sharply contrasts one’s biological family and one’s real family: whereas a child’s biological relatives may be abusive, their chosen family will love and value them. When the novel begins in 1939, after Hitler’s invasion of Poland, eight-year-old William Beech is evacuated alongside many other Londoners to the English countryside, as the English government anticipates German bombing of civilian targets in and around London during World War II. A government official boards William with a curmudgeonly widower named Tom Oakley in the rural village of Little Weirwold. Tom quickly realizes that William’s biological mother, Mrs. Beech, physically abuses him: he sees bruises and sores on William’s limbs, receives a letter from Mrs. Beech instructing him to beat William with a belt if he misbehaves, and notes William’s constant fearfulness. In fact, Mrs. Beech’s abusiveness runs deeper than Tom realizes. After William has been staying with Tom for almost six months, Mrs. Beech summons her son back to London for a visit. She then locks him in a closet with her new baby and abandons them both, fleeing the city and dying by suicide shortly thereafter. As the novel represents Mrs. Beech, she is both too cruel and too seriously affected by mental illness to act as a real mother to her biological children.

By contrast, Tom becomes William’s “real” father, though they aren’t biologically related. He treats William with kindness, helps him learn to read and write, and encourages him to develop his artistic talent. When Mrs. Beech locks William in a closet and abandons him in London, Tom is so worried at receiving no letters from William that he makes a long journey to London and braves air raids and skeptical government officials to find his “son.” Tom’s selfless love for young William makes clear that Tom is William’s true father even before Tom legally adopts him near the novel’s end. Thus, the novel implicitly argues that love and care, not biology, make people into families. 

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Biological Family vs. Chosen Family Quotes in Good Night, Mr. Tom

Below you will find the important quotes in Good Night, Mr. Tom related to the theme of Biological Family vs. Chosen Family.
Chapter 1: Meeting Quotes

Mum said she was kinder to him than most mothers. She only gave him soft beatings. He shuddered. He was dreading the moment when Mr. Oakley would discover how wicked he was. He was stronger-looking than Mum.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 6
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Chapter 2: Little Weirwold Quotes

“While you’re in my house,” he said in a choked voice, “you’ll live by my rules. I ent ever hit a child and if I ever do it’ll be with the skin of me hand. You got that?”

Willie nodded.

“So we can forget the ole belt.”

Related Characters: Tom Oakley (speaker), William Beech, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 23
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Underneath the attic, Tom sat in his armchair with Sammy collapsed across his feet. He held a large black wooden paint box on his lap. He raised the lid, gazed for an instant at the contents and quietly blew away the dust from the tops of the brightly colored pots.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Rachel
Related Symbols: Rachel’s Paint Box
Page Number: 29
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Chapter 3: Saturday Morning Quotes

He raised the lid and stared at the brightly colored pots. “Paints?” he inquired.

Tom grunted in the affirmative. “Bit old, but the pots’ll do. You paint?” Willie’s face fell. He longed to paint. “Nah, ‘cos I can’t read.”

“The ones that can read and write gits the paint, that it?”

“Yeh.” Willie touched one of the pots gently with his hand and then hastily took it away.

Related Characters: William Beech (speaker), Tom Oakley (speaker), Rachel
Related Symbols: Rachel’s Paint Box
Page Number: 33
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Chapter 4: Equipped Quotes

Willie continued to gaze at the materials. He loved the reds, but Mum said red was a sinful color.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Zach Wrench, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Related Symbols: Zach’s Bicycle
Page Number: 49
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Chapter 6: Zach Quotes

“As soon as I see someone I like, I talk to them.”

Willie almost dropped the clod of earth he was holding. No one had ever said that they liked him. He’d always accepted that no one did. Even his mum said she only liked him when he was quiet and still.

Related Characters: Zach Wrench (speaker), William Beech, Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 73
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Since Rachel’s death he hadn’t joined in any of the social activities in Little Weirwold. In his grief he had cut himself off from people, and when he had recovered he had lost the habit of socializing.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Zach Wrench, Rachel
Page Number: 75
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Chapter 8: School Quotes

“Mister Tom?” said Willie. “Does that mean that I won’t go to hell if I copy?”

“Hell!” said Tom in amazement as he strode out of the room. “Don’t be daft, boy. Whatever put such a thought in yer head?”

Willie felt enormously relieved and returned to his writing.

Related Characters: William Beech (speaker), Tom Oakley (speaker), Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother, Mrs. Hartridge
Page Number: 104
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Chapter 9: Birthday Boy Quotes

Since her death he had never wanted to touch anything that might remind him of her. Trust a strange boy to soften him up. The odd thing was that, after he had entered the paint shop, he had felt as if a heavy wave of sadness had suddenly been lifted from out of him. Memories of her didn’t seem as painful as he had imagined.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Rachel
Page Number: 109
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Chapter 10: The Case Quotes

The jersey had a polo-neck collar in red. The cuffs and the waistband were ribbed in the same color. Willie thought that next to Zach’s deep complexion and black hair the red looked pleasing.

“I think it’s fine,” he said quietly, and Zach knew he was speaking truthfully.

Related Characters: William Beech (speaker), Zach Wrench, Carrie Thatcher, George Fletcher, Ginnie Thatcher
Page Number: 126
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Chapter 11: Friday Quotes

When Willie woke the next day, there was something altogether unusual about the morning. He lay in bed for some time and stared up at the ceiling trying to puzzle it out. Finally he gave up and clambered out of bed. It was only when he started automatically to strip it that he realized what it was that was so different. There was no need for the sheets to be washed that day. They were dry.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Zach Wrench, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 145–146
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Chapter 12: The Show Must Go On Quotes

“I’m afraid I’ve had some rather bad news. Robert and Christine’s mother came early this morning and took them back to London. It seems she felt they were being used as unpaid labor. This means we have no Scrooge.”

Related Characters: Miss Emilia Thorne (speaker), William Beech, Tom Oakley
Page Number: 154
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“Everythin’ has its own time,” he whispered, and he blushed. “That’s what Mister Tom ses.”

Related Characters: William Beech (speaker), Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother, Miss Emilia Thorne, Rachel
Page Number: 155
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Chapter 13: Carol Singing Quotes

Tom grunted. “I ent ‘ere to listen to meself. One more time.”

Related Characters: Tom Oakley (speaker), William Beech, Rachel
Page Number: 162
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Chapter 14: New Beginnings Quotes

He adored being near Mrs. Hartridge, and he watched her stomach gently expand with each passing week. He loved the way she moved and smiled and the soft cadence of her voice.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother, Mrs. Hartridge
Page Number: 176
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Chapter 15: Home Quotes

He felt as though he was a different person lying there in the dark. He was no longer Willie. It was as if he had said good-bye to an old part of himself. Neither was he two separate people. He was Will inside and out.

For an instant he wished he had never gone to Little Weirwold. Then he would have thought his mum was kind and loving. He wouldn’t have known any different.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 197–198
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Chapter 16: The Search Quotes

“I never met anyone who cared that much for them. I hear such stories about you country folk, not nice uns neither. No offense,” he added, “but I can see some of you are a kind’earted lot.”

Related Characters: The Deptford Warden (speaker), William Beech, Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 207
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Chapter 17: Rescue Quotes

“Oh, Rachel,” he said half aloud to the sky. “What would you do?” and he saw her, in his mind, swing round in her long dress and flash her dark eyes at him.

“Kidnap him,” she said laughingly.

Tom gave a start. Rachel wouldn’t have said that. On second thoughts, Rachel would.

Related Characters: Tom Oakley (speaker), William Beech, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother, Rachel
Page Number: 228
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Chapter 18: Recovery Quotes

After they had died, he had bought the pot of blue paint and placed it in the black wooden box that he had made for her one Christmas, when he was eighteen. As he closed the lid, so he shut out not only the memory of her but also the company of anyone else who reminded him of her.

Related Characters: William Beech, Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother, Rachel
Related Symbols: Rachel’s Paint Box
Page Number: 240
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Chapter 20: Spooky Cott Quotes

“When you kidnap someone you usually want a ransom. There ent no one in the world who’d pay a ransom for me”—and here he glanced at Tom—“except Mister Tom perhaps, and he’s the one that’s supposed to have kidnapped me. Well, I reckon I weren’t kidnapped. I reckon I was rescued.”

Related Characters: William Beech (speaker), Tom Oakley, Mrs. Beech/William’s Mother
Page Number: 281
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