How Does It Feel to Be a Problem?

by

Moustafa Bayoumi

The subject of Bayoumi’s final portrait, Rami is a devoutly religious Palestinian American teenager who has decided to dedicate his life to Islam. He wants to teach Muslims to live more virtuously and show the West that Islam is, in the vast majority of places and forms, a peaceful and community-oriented religion. He is physically imposing, a star football player in high school. But, when his father goes to prison, he turns his energy to religion, which offers him a sense of fulfillment and solace he sees nowhere else. In college, he befriends Ezzat and Mohammad, who are also pious and ethically-minded; the three hope to do their part spreading peace, good will, and wisdom among Muslim and non-Muslim communities alike. With Mohammad, Rami runs a nonprofit website that sends copies of the Qur’an to anyone who requests one, which he considers a form of da‘wa (missionary work). At the end of Bayoumi’s portrait, Rami gives an eloquent speech about life and death at a mosque. He starkly contrasts with the common American picture of a devout Muslim, which associates religious conservatism with violent fundamentalism, and his aspiration to heal a Muslim community that has lost its moral compass and an American community that has lost its sense of compassion offers a kind of hope that is increasingly rare in the tense, divided world of post-9/11 America.

Rami Quotes in How Does It Feel to Be a Problem?

The How Does It Feel to Be a Problem? quotes below are all either spoken by Rami or refer to Rami. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Rami Quotes

But still it's not enough. “There are a lot of Muslims,” Ezzat says, “but there is no Islam.”

Related Characters: Moustafa Bayoumi (speaker), Ezzat (speaker), Rami
Page Number: 223
Explanation and Analysis:

“Oh, man,” he said. “I forgot a good ending!” He pursed his lips. “Sometimes you just forget,” he explained.

“How did you want it to end?” I asked.

He paused to get the expression just right. “You come into the world crying while everyone around you is laughing,” he said. “But when you leave this world for the next life, and everyone else is crying, you should be laughing.” He summed up what he meant. “You've done good. Now all you have is bliss,” he explained with wide eyes. “That's what I should have said.”

The young imam was kicking himself and smiling.

Related Characters: Moustafa Bayoumi (speaker), Rami (speaker)
Page Number: 256-257
Explanation and Analysis:
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Rami Quotes in How Does It Feel to Be a Problem?

The How Does It Feel to Be a Problem? quotes below are all either spoken by Rami or refer to Rami. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Racism, Discrimination, and Foreign Policy Theme Icon
).
Rami Quotes

But still it's not enough. “There are a lot of Muslims,” Ezzat says, “but there is no Islam.”

Related Characters: Moustafa Bayoumi (speaker), Ezzat (speaker), Rami
Page Number: 223
Explanation and Analysis:

“Oh, man,” he said. “I forgot a good ending!” He pursed his lips. “Sometimes you just forget,” he explained.

“How did you want it to end?” I asked.

He paused to get the expression just right. “You come into the world crying while everyone around you is laughing,” he said. “But when you leave this world for the next life, and everyone else is crying, you should be laughing.” He summed up what he meant. “You've done good. Now all you have is bliss,” he explained with wide eyes. “That's what I should have said.”

The young imam was kicking himself and smiling.

Related Characters: Moustafa Bayoumi (speaker), Rami (speaker)
Page Number: 256-257
Explanation and Analysis: