Saying all of this is takes a lot of courage, and thus it exemplifies just how far Jade has come over the course of the novel. It’s difficult and painful to do it, but it gives Sam the information she needs to figure out how to do better—something she’ll have to do if she and Jade are going to stay friends. When Jade thinks of Maxine’s advice and then discards it, it also points to her newfound confidence. Now, she knows she’s not being ungrateful by deciding Maxine’s advice doesn’t work for her.