The Memory Keeper’s Daughter

by

Kim Edwards

The Memory Keeper’s Daughter: Chapter 19: July 1988 Summary & Analysis

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David sits in the home office of his new house, looking out the window at the summer day outside. Rosemary is downstairs in the garden, planting flowers. Her son Jack, now five years old, sits near her, playing with a toy truck. David loves Jack like his own son—but also regrets that he doesn’t have many memories of Paul at this age, since back then, David was always working. He thinks, now, that he’s never really known either Paul or Norah—the secret that “blossomed in the center of his family” kept him from them.
David has chosen to move out of his house and live platonically with Rosemary rather than stay with his own family. This shows just how deeply he believes—or wants to believe—that in “raising” Rosemary and providing for her, he can repent for his mistakes with Phoebe years ago.
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For years, David and Rosemary have lived together in this duplex—Rosemary has offered to pay rent, but David has refused, insisting that she spend her money on school instead. His motives in raising Rosemary and Jack up in this house are not “entirely altruistic”—even Rosemary once observed that she “fill[s] up the place left by the daughter [David] gave away.” David can’t argue with this—it’s even true that over the years, Rosemary and Paul have become friends, and even behave sometimes like brother and sister.
David knows—as does Rosemary—that in sheltering her and Jack, he’s seeking absolution for the mistakes he’s made in the past. But along the way, he has indeed come to create a sort of new family—a family in which even the angsty Paul is a participant.
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David goes downstairs, admiring the paper cuttings in Jack’s room before putting on his shoes and preparing to go for a run. He heads outside and greets Rosemary and Jack. Rosemary tells him that she has her last-ever class tonight, and David congratulates her and apologizes for forgetting—he’s been busy, he says, with his new clinic, which turns away no patient regardless of their insurance situation.
David has tried to repent in other ways—the clinic which treats patients of all financial standings is yet another way David has tried to give back to the community and make up for his sins and errors. He gave up Phoebe because of a prejudice—but now, he turns away no one.
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Rosemary tells David she has news for him. She has been offered a job back in Harrisburg, her hometown—and wants to move back home. She has recently reconciled with her family, and wants to be near them—plus, she says, the job will pay for her to go to college. Though David has tears in his eyes as he hears the news, he congratulates Rosemary. Rosemary tries her best to express her gratitude to David for essentially saving her life—but after so many years, she stumbles over the words. Rosemary also tells David that he should at last tell Norah and Paul the truth. David says he can’t promise Rosemary he will.
Rosemary is moving on—just like a real daughter would at her age. David is sad to see her go, but there’s also a twinge of hope and gratefulness for the chance Rosemary has given him to redeem himself. He doesn’t know, though, whether he’ll be able to live up to the hopes she has for him, and come clean at last.
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David reflects on a time, several years ago, when he set up trust funds for both Jack and Phoebe. He located Caroline’s address and drove out to Pittsburgh, determined to find where she and Phoebe lived and then at last come clean to Norah—but at the last moment, as he approached the house and saw Phoebe, Caroline, and Al through the front window, he knew he couldn’t disrupt their family. He got back in his car and drove away, determined to “spare” his family the pain of knowing that Phoebe had moved through her whole life unaware of them. 
David continually feels pulled in the direction of the right thing—but is unable to make himself go through with it. The lie he told years ago has grown so large that dismantling it would affect not only his family, but the new family Phoebe has become a valued part of.
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Rosemary interrupts David’s thoughts by telling him she has one more piece of news—she is planning to marry her long-term boyfriend, Stuart. He is going to come to Harrisburg with her. David says that he’s happy for Rosemary, and all her news is making him feel old. Rosemary laughs, and asks David if he’ll give her away at her wedding in a few weeks. He promises he will, and asks Rosemary to send photographs of her and Jack’s lives in Harrisburg. Rosemary says she will. David has given up photography, exhausted by the “task of trying to transform the world into something else.”
David no longer believes that photography can save or transform him—and yet he’s still attached to the potential photographs hold, and longs for picture of Jack so that he can experience the ethereal freezing of time he’s chased all these years.
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David is about to set off on his run, but Rosemary says she forgot to tell him that Paul called from Seville, where he’s studying flamenco guitar. Rosemary says Paul didn’t leave a number, but sounded happy and promised to call again. David stretches and then sets off on his run.
This passage shows that while there may still be some lingering tension between Paul and David, they do have a relationship after all these years.
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As David runs, he realizes it is Norah’s birthday today. He thinks back to the early days of their marriage and becomes determined to go to her house—their old house—and tell her the truth, once and for all. He turns down the street where he used to live, but finds Norah’s driveway empty. He catches his breath, and then lets himself in through the back door for a drink of water. He walks through the house, taking in the changes Norah has made in the years since he’s left.
David once again edges close to telling the truth once and for all—before being foiled or sidetracked by another element of life. This shows that even the attempt to expose or redeem secrets is often futile—life gets in the way of redemption.
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In the kitchen, near the phone, there is a yellow legal pad for messages. David picks up a pen and begins writing a note to Norah—he tries several different ways to communicate the truth, but feels written words are insufficient. He tears the paper up. Hearing the bathroom sink dripping, David goes out to the shed and gathers tools to fix the leaking faucet. While he works, he hears Norah’s voicemail pick up—a friend is leaving a message wishing her a good trip in Europe, and David remembers that she’s gone for a few weeks with her new boyfriend. Finished fixing the sink, David returns to the kitchen where he writes her a brief note—“I fixed the bathroom sink. Happy birthday.” David leaves, locks the door behind him, and continues his run.
David chooses to perform an act of grace and service to better Norah’s life rather than leaving her to find a secret that will shatter everything she knows. At this point in their lives, this in and of itself is an act of kindness—David has waited too long, and now the secret between them, he believes, holds too much weight and power.
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