In Tamil Hindu weddings, a
thali is a religiously significant gold wedding necklace that the groom gives to the bride. The reference to Ambika’s
thali in this passage emphasizes that Jagan feels a religious and social as well as a personal responsibility to be a good husband to Ambika. Jagan’s feelings of responsibility to Ambika implicitly contrast with Mali’s cavalier attitude toward Grace and with his more secular, freewheeling attitudes toward romantic partnership and sex.