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Gender and Binaries
Secrets and Misunderstanding
Violence and Discrimination
Storytelling
Family
Summary
Analysis
One day, the woman at the school tells Claude to teach the children to speak English. Claude doesn’t know how to do that, but the woman says that since Claude speaks English, it shouldn’t be hard. “You learn from listen, talk, read,” the woman says. “They same.” Claude stands staring at the children, and one boy demands that Claude tell them a story. Claude knows one story, he says, but it is very long. At a loss for what to do, Claude tells the students the stories of Grumwald. From then on, Claude and the students trade stories—he tells them about Grumwald, and they tell him Thai and Burmese fairytales.
Claude’s use of the Grumwald stories to teach the kids to speak English again reflects the importance of storytelling in Claude’s life. Claude grew up listening to Grumwald stories, and Grumwald is, in many ways, a reflection of Claude himself. This passage also reflects the power of storytelling to bring people together. Claude and the kids bond over their stories, and Claude is able to share a piece of himself by telling the stories.
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Penn always calls in the morning, and the next day, Claude tells him about the school and the stories. There is even Cinderella in Thailand, Claude says, only the story is different. “Of course,” Penn says. “That’s how fairytales work.” They are “retold and reimagined,” that is the “oral tradition,” and it is what gives stories their magic. Stories are endless, Penn says, and they change over time. “Like me,” Claude says. Yes, Penn confirms. Things change, he continues, but not the love Penn and Rosie have for Claude. Penn apologizes for keeping Claude a secret. Someone so wonderful should never be kept a secret, he says.
Penn implies that people are brought together to share their stories within the oral tradition, which is the magic, as it allows people to realize that they really aren’t so different from others. Thailand, for example seems very different, but they still have the same fairytales. The stories change over time, just as Claude changed to Poppy and back again. Penn is finally realizing what a mistake it was to keep Claude’s gender a secret, which is one of Frankel’s primary arguments.
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Penn has been thinking about fairytales a lot lately, too, he says. He likes fairytales because the magic is quick and painless. Cinderella is turned into a princess with the wave of a wand, which makes for an amazing story, but it doesn’t work that way in real life. Even if Penn could wave a magic wand over Claude and make him Poppy, he doesn’t want to, because he doesn’t want to erase Claude’s early life—his story. The next day, Claude knows that Penn is right. He hasn’t been telling stories all these years, he has been “perfecting his world.” If you write your own story, Claude know knows, then you can control the ending, and you can be anyone you want to be.
Claude is finally taking control of his own story. Just as Penn wants him to see, if Claude writes his own story, he can be who he wants to be and who he is (Poppy) not who society assumes he is (Claude). This control of Claude’s story is what is lacking in keeping Claude’s gender a secret. If Claude’s gender is a secret, he has no control over how and when it comes out. If Claude is open about being transgender, he has a better chance of avoiding disasters like the one at school.