This is the first moment in which it seems that August is keeping herself in a state of ignorance. When her father says that she knows whose ashes are inside this jar, readers will likely intuit that her mother isn’t simply absent, but dead—something August apparently refuses to acknowledge. To that end, the mere fact that she uses the word “jar” to refer to what is clearly an urn highlights her desire to deny the reality that her mother has died, though Woodson has not yet clarified whether or not this is truly the case. All the same, it’s clear that August isn’t ready to face what’s really in the urn.