Barbara is one of Mary’s sisters; she’s the sibling that Mary feels closest to, because they shared many life experiences. Barbara, like Mary, was an activist with the American Indian Movement (AIM) and followed AIM around the country. Barbara’s experience as a Lakota woman is riddled with instances of racism and sexism, often both at the same time. Like her mother, Barbara was sterilized against her will after giving birth to her child, who died only two hours after birth. This atrocity reflects the U.S. government’s ongoing genocide against Native Americans. Barbara was also the victim of sexual harassment; Mary recounts a story where a group of white men shouted crude and racist comments at her. Through Barbara’s experiences, Mary stresses that “It’s hard being an Indian woman.”