The missionary boarding school that Mary attended was one of many boarding schools designed to separate Native American children from their families and culture and force them to assimilate to white society. In this passage, Mary briefly touches on the poor treatment she received while at the boarding school, specifically pointing out the sexism of the nuns, who sought to control the girls’ behavior, especially in romantic contexts (like holding hands with a boy). This is especially abhorrent and hypocritical, since the nuns failed to protect her from being raped, even as they policed her behavior. Tragically, Mary’s experience is not uncommon—Native American women suffer from a disproportionally high rate of sexual violence, particularly in comparison to white women.