My Oedipus Complex

by

Frank O’Connor

The Beds Symbol Analysis

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The beds in Larry’s house represent emotional connection between members of the family; those who share a bed are close, and those who are removed from bed are growing apart. At the beginning of the story, while Larry’s father is away at war, Larry and his mother share a bed. Not coincidentally, this is the period in the story when they are closest; Larry tells his mother all his ideas, troubles, and schemes, and she listens and devotes herself solely to him. After Larry’s father returns from the war, however, he reclaims his side of the bed to rekindle his connection with Larry’s mother. Larry tries to sleep between them, but complains of his father taking up “more than his fair share of the bed.” On several occasions, Larry complains of the “uncomfortable squeeze” between his parents, implying that the bed is only comfortably suited for two people. The limited amount of space in the master bed mirrors the way Larry’s mother has limited capacity for emotional connection. Just as three people cannot fit in the bed, Larry’s mother cannot devote all of herself to both her husband and her son, even if both of them demand this. Furthermore, once Sonny is born, his mother channels all of her attention to the baby, and the family’s sleeping arrangements reflect this change. Larry, who has distanced himself from his mother for her increasing strictness and “silly” behavior, is back to sleeping in his own bed, while Larry’s father has also grown apart from his wife as she has paid more attention to the baby. One night, when Sonny is sleeping in the master bed, Larry’s father decides to sleep next to Larry in Larry’s bed. For Larry and his father to share a bed marks the start of their friendship; by sharing a bed, they are—both literally and symbolically—getting closer.

The Beds Quotes in My Oedipus Complex

The My Oedipus Complex quotes below all refer to the symbol of The Beds. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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My Oedipus Complex Quotes

I simply longed for the warmth and depth of the big featherbed.

Related Characters: Larry (speaker), Father (Daddy, Mick), Mother (Mummy)
Related Symbols: The Beds
Page Number: 288
Explanation and Analysis:

“Mummy,” I said with equal firmness. “I think it would be healthier for Daddy to sleep in his own bed.”

Related Characters: Larry (speaker), Father (Daddy, Mick), Mother (Mummy)
Related Symbols: The Beds
Page Number: 288
Explanation and Analysis:

It was his turn now. After turning me out of the big bed, he had been turned out himself.

Related Characters: Larry (speaker), Father (Daddy, Mick), Mother (Mummy), Sonny
Related Symbols: The Beds
Page Number: 292
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The Beds Symbol Timeline in My Oedipus Complex

The timeline below shows where the symbol The Beds appears in My Oedipus Complex. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
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...and go mysteriously “like Santa Claus.” When his father would visit, Larry would squeeze into bed with him and Larry’s mother, which was not an easy fit. When his father left,... (full context)
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Larry grows accustomed to moving from his bed to his mother’s in the morning. Somewhere between warming up beside his mother, plotting out... (full context)
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One morning, Larry wakes up to find his father in the master bed. When Larry sees his father change into a suit instead of his uniform, he realizes... (full context)
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...full of energy and eager to share his plans with his mother. He climbs into bed, but finds his father taking up “more than his fair share” of room. He kicks... (full context)
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Previously, Larry told his mother that the two of them sharing a bed would be more efficient, but Larry’s mother said that having separate beds is “healthier.” Now,... (full context)
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Larry’s father gets out of bed and brings tea for himself and for Larry’s mother. Larry wants a cup of tea,... (full context)
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...Larry understands the gravity of the situation, and he resolves to sleep in his own bed. (full context)
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Even though he tries, Larry can’t resist the temptation of going to his parents’ bed. Larry’s mother permits him to stay so long as he doesn’t talk. Not accepting this,... (full context)
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...startled Larry wakes up one evening to find that he is not alone in his bed. He thinks that his mother has finally “come to her senses and left Father for... (full context)