Surprisingly, when Ray reaches his mother’s house, he briefly steps out of his countercultural bohemian mode and becomes just another member of an ordinary American family. This shows that, even though he rejects mainstream American culture in general, he still understands some of the reasons that people become deeply attached to it. In fact, his empathy for his mother—who’s forced to wash dishes by hand—shows that he understands how conventional ideas of gender end up forcing women into subservient roles. (This is something Japhy never realizes, even when he envisions a new society.) In turn, Ray critiques Japhy for putting ideals above practicality: while it’s easy for him to reject “kitchen machinery” because he’s a single man living in the woods, a dishwasher would make a significant difference in many women’s lives. This reinforces Ray’s sense that for most people, who are already living modern lives, it’s simply impossible to give everything up and go frolic in the woods like Japhy. In other words, Ray and Japhy are privileged to be able to reject mainstream society wholesale; most people must simply decide what role they want to play in mainstream society.