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Ruiz argues that since most people go through life with an internal commentary on everything they are doing imperfectly (delivered by their inner critical voice, the Judge), they also develop another inner voice—which he names the Victim—that receives the Judge’s harsh criticisms and feels ashamed, fearful, and inadequate. The victim fears being judged so much that most people go through life trying to avoid negative judgement, instead of acting based on their own desires. Essentially, the Victim is an internal voice that says “I’m not good enough” and makes people feel disempowered and sorry for themselves. Ruiz’s goal in The Four Agreements is to silence the Victim and replace this voice with self-acceptance, self-love, courage, and positivity.
Victim Quotes in The Four Agreements
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Chapter 1. Domestication...
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We are so well trained that we are our own domesticator. We are an autodomesticated animal.
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The Judge decrees, and the Victim suffers the guilt and the punishment. But who says there is justice in this dream?
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Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves; it is why we don’t accept ourselves the way we are, and why we don’t accept others the way they are.
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Chapter 5. The Fourth Agreement
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I did my best.
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Chapter 6. The Toltec Path to Freedom
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The parasite dreams through your mind and lives its life through your body. It survives on the emotions that come from fear, and thrives on drama and suffering.
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Victim Quotes in The Four Agreements
The The Four Agreements quotes below are all either spoken by Victim or refer to Victim . For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 1. Domestication...
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We are so well trained that we are our own domesticator. We are an autodomesticated animal.
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The Judge decrees, and the Victim suffers the guilt and the punishment. But who says there is justice in this dream?
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Our image of perfection is the reason we reject ourselves; it is why we don’t accept ourselves the way we are, and why we don’t accept others the way they are.
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Chapter 5. The Fourth Agreement
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I did my best.
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Chapter 6. The Toltec Path to Freedom
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The parasite dreams through your mind and lives its life through your body. It survives on the emotions that come from fear, and thrives on drama and suffering.
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