The Leavers

by

Lisa Ko

The Leavers: Chapter 18 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
Polly notes that Daniel looks troubled by her story, but he keeps asking questions. When she tells him that she saw Leon after returning to Fuzhou, he asks, “Didn’t he tell you I was adopted?” As she tries to think of an answer, he says, “You knew, and didn’t do anything?” Sidestepping this question, she narrates the moment she saw Leon for the first time since going to Ardsleyville. She was working in the nail salon, and he appeared and asked to speak with her, eventually telling her that Daniel was adopted by “a white couple.” “I should have never left,” he told Polly. “If I hadn’t left, [Deming] would still be with me. It’s my fault. I don’t know how to get in touch with him.”
In this scene, Daniel learns how guilty Leon feels about having abandoned him. This makes sense, considering that Leon made an actual choice to leave him, whereas Polly was forced to do so. Of course, this doesn’t excuse Leon’s failure to support Daniel in his time of need, but perhaps hearing about his remorse will help Daniel see that the adults in his life actually do care about him after all.
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Still narrating her reunification with Leon, Polly says he takes her to his friend’s apartment, which is empty. He can’t take her back to his own apartment because he’s married, though this doesn’t stop him from staying with her at his friend’s place for a handful of nights, which they spend having sex and talking. Each night, Polly wakes up screaming, dreaming about Ardsleyville. Eventually, Leon goes out and brings back a bottle of sleeping pills, and her nightmares recede into the blank darkness of night. When Leon’s friend is about to come back, Leon suggests that they could continue to “be together” in the outside world, but Polly says, “Go home to your wife.” She says this because “being with Leon” makes only reminds her of losing Deming.
Polly’s nightmares are manifestations of the trauma she experienced in Ardsleyville. Not only was she deported, but she was also forced to endure psychological hardships that have followed her into her new life in China. Because of this, she tells Leon to go back to his wife, knowing that she can’t forget about her tumultuous past if she continues to see him.
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After her time with Leon, Polly takes a business class, and her teacher is so impressed that she lived in the United States that he invites her to be an English teacher at the new school he’s opening. Planning to use her wages to return to New York to find Deming, she accepts the position. A year later, she meets Yong, who is one of her students. On the last day of class, he asks her on a date, and six months later, they get married, earning Polly “urban hukou” (permanent city residency).
For the first time, Polly is legally allowed to live somewhere she actually wants to live. With urban hukou, she doesn’t need to worry about her citizenship status, so she can finally focus on building the life she wants, though she tells herself she’s only doing this to save money so she can eventually find Deming.
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In the Beijing hotel room with Daniel, Polly explains that she couldn’t go back to look for him in the United States because she had been deported. “I couldn’t go anywhere,” she says. “If I thought about you too much I wouldn’t be able to live.” In response, Daniel accuses her of forgetting him, pointing out that she didn’t even tell Yong about him. Ashamed, Polly admits that she thought Yong would leave her, though she notes that this is a lie. “I’d only told myself that,” she narrates. “I had never believed it.” Feeling bad, Polly says, “But you were safe, weren’t you? With your adoptive parents?” Listening to herself, she registers the “pleading desperation” in her own voice, realizing just how much she wants to “believe” that she didn’t ruin her son’s life.
Having gotten used to her new life as a childless woman in Fuzhou, Polly decided not to tell Yong about Deming. In an attempt to separate her past life from her current existence, she tried not to think about him “too much,” and though she told herself she was only doing this to survive, it’s hard to deny that she also enjoyed her new lifestyle, having finally found the kind of independence for which she’d long been searching. At the same time, though, she felt guilty for not trying harder to find Deming, and when she asks in this passage if he was safe, she puts him in the position of once again having to console an adult who has let him down.
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