SN’s comment about wanting to feel comfortable enough to tuck hair behind Jessie’s ear speaks to the kind of intimacy he wants to foster with her. He recognizes that simply seeing each other in person won’t necessarily help their relationship or deepen their connection with each other. Rather, what will help them is to continue to talk like they have been until they feel more comfortable with each other and develop a sense of closeness. When Jessie insists to the reader that she understands this, it shows that she does, on some level, understand that her virtual relationship with SN is just as meaningful as her in-person relationships with others.