Tell Me Three Things

by

Julie Buxbaum

Scarlett is Jessie’s half-Jewish, half-Korean best friend. Scarlett is a tiny spitfire who works hard to make herself “undeniable” to others. She’s an exceptional cheerleader for Jessie and has been since Jessie’s mom died—she profoundly said in the aftermath that they needed to pretend that things were okay, even though they weren’t, in order to make it through. Jessie is extremely grateful to Scarlett for her support and her advice on everything from how to deal with SN to her clothing or makeup choices. They text almost constantly after Jessie moves, though most of their conversations are about what Jessie is experiencing in Los Angeles. Occasionally, Scarlett interjects with something about her life, such as that she’s befriending their former enemy Deena in Jessie’s absence and that she’s starting to date Adam Kravitz. Though Jessie is supportive when Scarlett offers these things, Jessie seldom asks about them. Scarlett goes back and forth on how she feels about possibly having sex with Adam. While she’s curious and wants to get her first time over with, she’s also very nervous—and more than anything, needs someone to talk to about her experiences and desires. Things come to a head between Scarlett and Jessie during Jessie’s visit to Chicago. Scarlett finally breaks down and insists that Jessie hasn’t been a good friend, since she hasn’t shown genuine interest in Scarlett’s life for months now. Scarlett reveals her insecurities about sex and her relationship with Adam once she and Jessie make up and not long after Jessie’s visit, Scarlett has a positive first sexual experience with Adam.

Scarlett Quotes in Tell Me Three Things

The Tell Me Three Things quotes below are all either spoken by Scarlett or refer to Scarlett. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 11 Quotes

She looks to me to back her up, and I wonder if my existence is a problem for her friendship with Agnes. Scar and I always sat alone at lunch. We weren’t really interested in talking to anyone else. To be honest, I’m not sure how I’d feel if she had invited some new girl to sit with us. Dri not only invited me, but did so excitedly.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett, Adrianna Sanchez/Dri, Agnes
Page Number: 90
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Chapter 12 Quotes

Will I, one day, be able to sleep with a guy and not feel horribly awkward and tortured and not wonder what it all means? I assume so. But right now, the thought of that sort of exposure seems unimaginable, and mostly, if I’m totally honest, nothing short of terrifying.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Scarlett, Adrianna Sanchez/Dri
Page Number: 99
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Chapter 27 Quotes

I will tell her about the mess I’ve made of things, how my new life feels on the verge of unraveling, and she will tell me how to fix it. [...]

And she’ll remind me that everything that is new always feels tenuous, that a lot of this, maybe even most of this, is in my head.

In T minus four hours, I will be home again. Even though my mom won’t be there, at least, finally, I will be someplace I recognize.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett, Jessie’s Mom
Page Number: 247
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For a moment, I switch things around: think about what it would have been like if Scar had been the one who took off and I’d been the one left behind. What it would have been like to start all over with the people we have known forever. All of those people we had already chosen, for one reason or another, not to be friends with. Until now, it has never once occurred to me that my leaving happened to anyone but me.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett
Page Number: 250
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I turn off my phone. Run up the stairs to the small bathroom. Throw up my DeLucci’s pizza and six cans of beer and don’t even feel the tiniest bit of nostalgic relief when I see Scar’s map of the world shower curtain or even the Cat in the Hat soap dispenser that has been there for as long as I can remember.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Scarlett
Page Number: 257
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Chapter 28 Quotes

And as stupid as it is, I admit I think about SN that way too. Not Caleb, not the real-life version of SN, but the one on my screen. The one who is always there for me.

He’s not real, of course. We’re all better versions of ourselves when we get that extra time to craft the perfect message. The SN I know and obsess about can’t translate into real life. He’s a virtual soul mate, not a real one. I do realize that.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Scarlett, Caleb, Adam Kravitz
Page Number: 261
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“I think he’s Liam.”

“No way,” I say.

“It explains why he would dump Gem for you.”

I smile at Scar but not because any part of me hopes SN is Liam. [...]

“You’ve been listening,” I say, and feel so grateful she’s still my friend, that she will be, hopefully forever.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Gem, Liam Sandler
Page Number: 268
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Scarlett Quotes in Tell Me Three Things

The Tell Me Three Things quotes below are all either spoken by Scarlett or refer to Scarlett. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Blended Families Theme Icon
).
Chapter 11 Quotes

She looks to me to back her up, and I wonder if my existence is a problem for her friendship with Agnes. Scar and I always sat alone at lunch. We weren’t really interested in talking to anyone else. To be honest, I’m not sure how I’d feel if she had invited some new girl to sit with us. Dri not only invited me, but did so excitedly.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett, Adrianna Sanchez/Dri, Agnes
Page Number: 90
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 12 Quotes

Will I, one day, be able to sleep with a guy and not feel horribly awkward and tortured and not wonder what it all means? I assume so. But right now, the thought of that sort of exposure seems unimaginable, and mostly, if I’m totally honest, nothing short of terrifying.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Scarlett, Adrianna Sanchez/Dri
Page Number: 99
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 27 Quotes

I will tell her about the mess I’ve made of things, how my new life feels on the verge of unraveling, and she will tell me how to fix it. [...]

And she’ll remind me that everything that is new always feels tenuous, that a lot of this, maybe even most of this, is in my head.

In T minus four hours, I will be home again. Even though my mom won’t be there, at least, finally, I will be someplace I recognize.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett, Jessie’s Mom
Page Number: 247
Explanation and Analysis:

For a moment, I switch things around: think about what it would have been like if Scar had been the one who took off and I’d been the one left behind. What it would have been like to start all over with the people we have known forever. All of those people we had already chosen, for one reason or another, not to be friends with. Until now, it has never once occurred to me that my leaving happened to anyone but me.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett
Page Number: 250
Explanation and Analysis:

I turn off my phone. Run up the stairs to the small bathroom. Throw up my DeLucci’s pizza and six cans of beer and don’t even feel the tiniest bit of nostalgic relief when I see Scar’s map of the world shower curtain or even the Cat in the Hat soap dispenser that has been there for as long as I can remember.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Scarlett
Page Number: 257
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 28 Quotes

And as stupid as it is, I admit I think about SN that way too. Not Caleb, not the real-life version of SN, but the one on my screen. The one who is always there for me.

He’s not real, of course. We’re all better versions of ourselves when we get that extra time to craft the perfect message. The SN I know and obsess about can’t translate into real life. He’s a virtual soul mate, not a real one. I do realize that.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Scarlett, Caleb, Adam Kravitz
Page Number: 261
Explanation and Analysis:

“I think he’s Liam.”

“No way,” I say.

“It explains why he would dump Gem for you.”

I smile at Scar but not because any part of me hopes SN is Liam. [...]

“You’ve been listening,” I say, and feel so grateful she’s still my friend, that she will be, hopefully forever.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman, Gem, Liam Sandler
Page Number: 268
Explanation and Analysis: