Tell Me Three Things

by

Julie Buxbaum

Jessie’s Mom Character Analysis

Jessie’s mom died about two years before the novel begins of ovarian cancer. She was a bright, happy woman who loved poetry. She worked part-time and with the rest of her time, she kept the household running. As far as Jessie knew, her mom and Dad were madly in love with each other. Her cancer diagnosis was sudden and surprising, as she was diagnosed with stage four cancer after not experiencing any symptoms that Jessie knew of. Jessie and her mom were very close, so Jessie spent a lot of time with her mom in the two years she battled cancer. They watched movies and ate Oreos—their special bad-day ritual—until the chemo and radiation caused Mom’s eyesight to go. In her last few months, Jessie read out loud to her. Jessie thinks often of her mom and how things used to be, and she counts the days since Mom died. This is one of the reasons why Jessie and SN are able to connect—SN lost a sibling and also counts the days since their passing.

Jessie’s Mom Quotes in Tell Me Three Things

The Tell Me Three Things quotes below are all either spoken by Jessie’s Mom or refer to Jessie’s Mom. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 5 Quotes

The problem was that Mom wasn’t here. That she would never be anywhere again. When I thought about that for too long, which I didn’t, when I could help it, I realized it didn’t matter much where I slept.

Certain facts tend to render everything else irrelevant.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom
Page Number: 38
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“My dad died of lung cancer,” Theo says, apropos of nothing, and takes another long hit. “That’s why I smoke. Figure if you can run twelve miles a day and get cancer anyway, I might as well live it up.”

“That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard.”

“I know, right?” Theo puts out the joint, carefully saves what’s left for later. He stands up and looks me straight in the eye. No trace of his temper tantrum left. “Hey, for what it’s worth, I’m really sorry about your mom.”

“Thanks,” I say. “Sorry about your dad.”

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Theo (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom, Theo’s Dad
Page Number: 47
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Chapter 7 Quotes

“You know how it is. Mean girls get mean in seventh grade and they stay that way until your ten-year reunion, when they want to be best friends again. At least, that’s what my mom says.”

“It’s funny how high school is high school everywhere,” I say, and smile at Dri. Try not to feel uncomfortable at the mention of moms, like it didn’t set off an invisible flare in my chest. “I mean, this place is completely different than where I come from, but in some ways it’s exactly the same.”

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Adrianna Sanchez/Dri (speaker), Gem, Jessie’s Mom, Crystal
Page Number: 59
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Chapter 13 Quotes

SN: how long ago?

Me: 765 days, five hours, twenty-two minutes. You?

SN: 196 days, one hour, three minutes.

Me: You count too?

SN: I count too.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman (speaker), Jessie’s Mom, Xander
Page Number: 114
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Chapter 24 Quotes

There aren’t pictures of him around, which would be weird, but then I realize there aren’t very many pictures at all. [...]

The walls of my old house were covered with pictures of my family. Each of my school photos were framed and mounted in chronological order, even the ones where I was caught with my eyes closed [...]

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Theo, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom, Theo’s Dad
Page Number: 221
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Chapter 27 Quotes

I will tell her about the mess I’ve made of things, how my new life feels on the verge of unraveling, and she will tell me how to fix it. [...]

And she’ll remind me that everything that is new always feels tenuous, that a lot of this, maybe even most of this, is in my head.

In T minus four hours, I will be home again. Even though my mom won’t be there, at least, finally, I will be someplace I recognize.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett, Jessie’s Mom
Page Number: 247
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Chapter 33 Quotes

This is a house full of pain, of bad juju, as Theo said, but it’s also a house of starting over. Maybe we need to light a few candles. Better yet, start putting things on all of the white walls. “You know, I mean, this place is beautiful, but maybe you should put out some pictures too. Of your husband—I mean your, uh, other husband, Theo’s dad, and of Theo as a kid. So he can remember.”

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Theo, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom, Theo’s Dad
Page Number: 312
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Jessie’s Mom Quotes in Tell Me Three Things

The Tell Me Three Things quotes below are all either spoken by Jessie’s Mom or refer to Jessie’s Mom. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Blended Families Theme Icon
).
Chapter 5 Quotes

The problem was that Mom wasn’t here. That she would never be anywhere again. When I thought about that for too long, which I didn’t, when I could help it, I realized it didn’t matter much where I slept.

Certain facts tend to render everything else irrelevant.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom
Page Number: 38
Explanation and Analysis:

“My dad died of lung cancer,” Theo says, apropos of nothing, and takes another long hit. “That’s why I smoke. Figure if you can run twelve miles a day and get cancer anyway, I might as well live it up.”

“That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard.”

“I know, right?” Theo puts out the joint, carefully saves what’s left for later. He stands up and looks me straight in the eye. No trace of his temper tantrum left. “Hey, for what it’s worth, I’m really sorry about your mom.”

“Thanks,” I say. “Sorry about your dad.”

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Theo (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom, Theo’s Dad
Page Number: 47
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Chapter 7 Quotes

“You know how it is. Mean girls get mean in seventh grade and they stay that way until your ten-year reunion, when they want to be best friends again. At least, that’s what my mom says.”

“It’s funny how high school is high school everywhere,” I say, and smile at Dri. Try not to feel uncomfortable at the mention of moms, like it didn’t set off an invisible flare in my chest. “I mean, this place is completely different than where I come from, but in some ways it’s exactly the same.”

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Adrianna Sanchez/Dri (speaker), Gem, Jessie’s Mom, Crystal
Page Number: 59
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Chapter 13 Quotes

SN: how long ago?

Me: 765 days, five hours, twenty-two minutes. You?

SN: 196 days, one hour, three minutes.

Me: You count too?

SN: I count too.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Ethan/Somebody Nobody/The Batman (speaker), Jessie’s Mom, Xander
Page Number: 114
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Chapter 24 Quotes

There aren’t pictures of him around, which would be weird, but then I realize there aren’t very many pictures at all. [...]

The walls of my old house were covered with pictures of my family. Each of my school photos were framed and mounted in chronological order, even the ones where I was caught with my eyes closed [...]

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Theo, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom, Theo’s Dad
Page Number: 221
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Chapter 27 Quotes

I will tell her about the mess I’ve made of things, how my new life feels on the verge of unraveling, and she will tell me how to fix it. [...]

And she’ll remind me that everything that is new always feels tenuous, that a lot of this, maybe even most of this, is in my head.

In T minus four hours, I will be home again. Even though my mom won’t be there, at least, finally, I will be someplace I recognize.

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Scarlett, Jessie’s Mom
Page Number: 247
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Chapter 33 Quotes

This is a house full of pain, of bad juju, as Theo said, but it’s also a house of starting over. Maybe we need to light a few candles. Better yet, start putting things on all of the white walls. “You know, I mean, this place is beautiful, but maybe you should put out some pictures too. Of your husband—I mean your, uh, other husband, Theo’s dad, and of Theo as a kid. So he can remember.”

Related Characters: Jessie Holmes (speaker), Jessie’s Dad, Theo, Rachel/Dad’s New Wife, Jessie’s Mom, Theo’s Dad
Page Number: 312
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