Tolstoy shows the complexity of Marya’s personality. She’s unfailingly loyal to her family, yet realistically, she treats her young nephew much as she was treated as a child, though she’s ashamed of it. Always self-sacrificing, Marya begins to take pride in her own ability to forebear under oppression. And through all this, she genuinely loves her father. Like Pierre, she hasn’t completely figured out the meaning of her life, and there’s a sense that refusing her own happiness is backfiring, suppressing her growth.