Though Nikolai and Marya’s meeting was brief, they saw each other at their best in those moments—Marya’s bright-eyed earnestness and Nikolai’s eagerness to be of service in a matter of honor. This accounts for their immediate mutual fondness—Tolstoy associates real love with the clarity of seeing people as they really are. However, the novel has also established that love and marriage are two different things, and Nikolai is committed elsewhere.