Violet feels like she has no choice but to process Finch’s disappearance like she would any other breakup. Being upset that she’s “easy to leave,” though, suggests that Violet blames herself for Finch’s disappearance. This weight makes it more difficult for Violet to move on, even as she takes steps like putting away his things and continuing on with their project. Her narration also makes it clear that she’s not over Finch, even though she’d like to be.