Ranching is a grueling line of work, and everyone in Ralph’s family has to work in order for their family to survive. Though there are divisions in work by age and gender in Ralph’s family, such divisions are not as strictly enforced as they might be elsewhere, simply by virtue of necessity. By the time he is 11 years old, for instance, Ralph begins working to support his family, working long hours and often skipping school. Long before he reaches puberty, his father embraces him as a man, acknowledging that he can do a “few things better than a good many men.” The same is true of his sister, Grace, who often stays home to take care of her younger siblings and help her mother around the house. Though she is not allowed to work for wages like her brother, such restrictions are not enforced across the board. When Ralph is hired to work on Mr. Cooper’s ranch, for instance, Grace is called upon to take over for him haying at Fred Aultland’s ranch. This demonstrates that even in a society bound by traditional age and gender expectations, there are times when such rules can be bent. Though the men in the family are the ones officially earning wages, the women work just as hard, and their work is no less integral to the family’s survival. With their livelihood hanging constantly in the balance, Ralph’s family does not have the luxury to be exclusionary about who can and cannot work.
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And there wasn’t a sound, except that dry little cough that father had then. When Mother lifted her head, her lips were pressed tightly together, and her voice wasn’t trembly any more. “The Bible says, ‘Trust in the lord and do good; so shalt thou dwell in the land, and verily thou shalt be fed.’ The hand of God has led us here; we have set our shoulders to the wheel, and we will not turn back.”
“Charlie,” she said—it was only more than a whisper—“we came here to save your life. Are you going to throw it away over so little? We need you, oh, we need you, Charlie.” From where we were standing, I saw her eyes fill up with tears, but none spilled over.
Then he said to me, “Didn’t have no trouble with him, did ya, Little Britches?”
I didn’t want to be carried that night. It just didn’t seem right to be carried home when we were taking the check that I had helped earn. Father understood how I felt, and he walked slow enough that I didn’t have to trot anymore, and let me carry the check home to mother in my overall pocket.
“Yep, they’re easier ways, and it would be easier for him to forget. The lessons you remember longest are the ones that hurt you the most when you learn ‘em. Do you follow what I’m tryin’ to tell you?”
I couldn’t help thinking about what Father had said—that night out on the chopping block—and I said, “I guess I know what you mean.”
“You’re getting to be quite a man now, Son. You’re well past eleven years old, and you can do quite a few things better than a good many men. I’m going to treat you like a man from now on. I’m never going to spank you again, or scold you for little things, and some day it’s going to be ‘Moody and Sons, Building Contractors.’”
Father had always said grace before meals; always the same twenty-five words, and the ritual was always the same. Mother would look around the table to see that everything was in readiness; then she would nod to Father. That night she nodded to me and I became a man.