Just as Mrs. Bossier provides a contrast to Sybylla’s untraditional womanhood, Uncle Julius acts as the conventional older man to Harold’s youth. He lacks Harold’s respect for women, and his remark that women are “the ruination of all men” is a broad, universalizing, and disparaging statement. However, Harold ignores the advice of his elder and continues to pursue Sybylla. Her description of his silence shows the appeal that Harold offers. His willingness to listen to her is “wonderful” and surprising, and he displays the intelligence that she craves in a partner. And though he is less emotional than Sybylla, the “fearful” nature of his silence provides Sybylla some of the passion that his words do not.