Harold and Sybylla often swap jokes about how men and women behave, and Harold is happy to resume that banter even after so many years apart. When he comments that their conversation is just like old times, he makes clear that he wants their relationship to be like it was before. Sybylla, though, describes their relationship as “like, yet unlike” how it used to be––that is, their jokes are the same, but the rejected marriage proposal has fundamentally altered their relationship.