They Both Die at the End

They Both Die at the End

by

Adam Silvera

Mateo’s Birth Symbol Analysis

Mateo’s Birth Symbol Icon

Mateo’s birth symbolizes the connectedness of life and death, as Mateo’s mother died giving birth to him. When confronted with his own End Day, Mateo thinks a lot about his birth—both the tender, happy parts of it and the tragedy of his mother’s death. He thinks of the stories he’s heard about the shower his parents took together while his mom was in labor, and he thinks about the nurse who was the first to hold him—though he also thinks about how his mom bled to death, causing Dad to lose his beloved wife, as that nurse was holding him. Mateo realizes that his birth is proof that life and death are intimately connected—it’s impossible to think of one without acknowledging the other.

Mateo’s Birth Quotes in They Both Die at the End

The They Both Die at the End quotes below all refer to the symbol of Mateo’s Birth. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Mortality, Life, and Meaning Theme Icon
).
Mateo, 5:14 p.m. Quotes

“I know there’s no time to waste, but I had to be sure you are who I thought you were. The best thing about dying is your friendship.” I never thought I would find someone I could say words like this to.

Related Characters: Mateo Torrez (speaker), Rufus Emeterio, Dad, Mateo’s Mom
Related Symbols: Mateo’s Birth
Page Number: 308
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Mateo’s Birth Symbol Timeline in They Both Die at the End

The timeline below shows where the symbol Mateo’s Birth appears in They Both Die at the End. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
September 5, 2017: Mateo Torrez, 12:22 a.m.
Mortality, Life, and Meaning Theme Icon
Business, Ethics, and Dehumanization Theme Icon
...intensive care, and Mateo’s mom marked him for an early death by dying during his birth—but he can’t avoid it. Mateo answers the phone and a woman named Andrea asks for... (full context)
Mateo, 4:26 a.m.
Human Connection and Social Media Theme Icon
Friendship and Chosen Family Theme Icon
...Dad’s not around—Dad should be here for Mateo, since he was here when Mateo was born and when Mateo’s mom died. On the back of his photo, Mateo writes Dad a... (full context)
Mateo, 11:32 a.m.
Mortality, Life, and Meaning Theme Icon
Choices and Consequences Theme Icon
Friendship and Chosen Family Theme Icon
...Mateo thinks that everything has come full circle: his mom died the day he was born, and now, he’ll be buried next to her. As a kid, he couldn’t wrap his... (full context)