Shoshanna’s mother claims that even if Chase’s personality has altered, what he did was “unforgivable” and so Shoshanna can’t become friends with him. This harsh concept of responsibility entails that even if an individual grows and changes after committing a bad act, it’s reasonable to despise them forever if the act was bad enough. Yet Shoshanna’s mother and father haven’t interacted with Chase since his accident; it’s unclear whether they will remain so harshly judgmental if they do.