Hardin’s feelings about his mother depend on his realization that none of her suffering was necessary, nor was it fully her fault. Different drug policies would have prevented nearly all of it. Thus, Hardin manages to empathize with his parents because he understands how policy, pain, and terror drove their poor decisions. Of course, Hari has shown that the people who made these harmful policies, like Harry Anslinger, were driven by their own pain and fear, too. Hardin’s experience suggests that empathy and understanding are crucial to resolving the drug war.