Significantly, Scarlett seeks Gerald in her distress, and avoided confrontation with Mammy and Ellen, both women. She is drawn to Gerald’s “earthy” nature (by which the novel means he's down-to-earth and practical) because she is the same way. Indeed, the novel implies that Scarlett is much more like her father than her mother in terms of her personality, though the novel makes it clear that Scarlett isn’t yet aware of this.