Rhett observes that Ashley is not as admirable as Scarlett thinks he is, and that he is nothing compared to her. Scarlett is upset that she lost her money, but she can cope with the fact that the world is different; Ashley, on the other hand, wishes he had died with the past. Rhett also observes that, compared to Scarlett, Ashley is weak. He has done nothing to survive except rely on others’ charity. He insinuates that Scarlett is more of a man, in this sense, than Ashley is.