Our Mutual Friend

Our Mutual Friend

by

Charles Dickens

Bella Wilfer (later Harmon) is the daughter of Mr. Wilfer and Mrs. Wilfer, and the sister of Lavinia. When she’s a girl, old Mr. Harmon notices her and later puts it in his will that John Harmon will only receive his inheritance if he marries Bella. But when John Harmon seemingly dies, Bella and her family start making other marriage plans. Initially, Bella can be childish, flipping the board when she’s losing at draughts against her sister, Lavinia. She tells her father that the thing she wants most from a husband is money, even though this isn’t why her own parents married. For this reason, Bella initially rejects the advances of her family’s lodger, John Rokesmith (who is secretly John Harmon). But when Bella gets a taste of upper-class life after being taken in by the newly wealthy Noddy Boffin and Henerietty Boffin, Bella sees the consequences of greed, based on the effects it (seemingly) has on Mr. Boffin. By the end of the novel, Bella has grown as a character, and she accepts the love of John Rokesmith, even though he doesn’t seem to have much money. She lives happily in a modest home for a while until John Harmon’s real identity comes out, allowing him and Bella to finally claim his inheritance. Bella’s story is a coming-of-age story that shows the capacity of people to change, grow, and become less selfish.

Bella Quotes in Our Mutual Friend

The Our Mutual Friend quotes below are all either spoken by Bella or refer to Bella. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Society, Class, and Character Theme Icon
).
Book 2, Chapter 8 Quotes

“And now, Pa,” pursued Bella, “I’ll make a confession to you. I am the most mercenary little wretch that ever lived in the world.”

“I should hardly have thought it of you, my dear,” returned her father, first glancing at himself; and then at the dessert.

“I understand what you mean, Pa, but it’s not that. It’s not that I care for money to keep as money, but I do care so much for what it will buy!”

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Mr. Reginald Wilfer (speaker), John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith
Page Number: 316
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 2, Chapter 9 Quotes

The doctor was quick to understand children, and, taking the horse, the ark, the yellow bird, and the man in the Guards, from Johnny’s bed, softly placed them on that of his next neighbour, the mite with the broken leg.

With a weary and yet a pleased smile, and with an action as if he stretched his little figure out to rest, the child heaved his body on the sustaining arm, and seeking Rokesmith’s face with his lips, said:

“A kiss for the boofer lady.”

Having now bequeathed all he had to dispose of, and arranged his affairs in this world, Johnny, thus speaking, left it.

Related Characters: Johnny (speaker), Bella, Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, Old Mr. Harmon, Betty Higden
Page Number: 327
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 4 Quotes

“I have hoped and trusted not too, Pa; but every day he changes for the worse, and for the worse. Not to me—he is always much the same to me—but to others about him. Before my eyes he grows suspicious, capricious, hard, tyrannical, unjust. If ever a good man were ruined by good fortune, it is my benefactor. And yet, Pa, think how terrible the fascination of money is! I see this, and hate this, and dread this, and don’t know but that money might make a much worse change in me. And yet I have money always in my thoughts and my desires; and the whole life I place before myself is money, money, money, and what money can make of life!”

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, Fascination Fledgeby, Mr. Reginald Wilfer
Page Number: 455
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 6 Quotes

“Do you like what Wegg’s been a-reading?”

Mr Venus answered that he found it extremely interesting.

“Then come again,” said Mr Boffin, “and hear some more. Come when you like; come the day after to-morrow, half an hour sooner. There’s plenty more; there’s no end to it.”

Mr Venus expressed his acknowledgments and accepted the invitation.

“It’s wonderful what’s been hid, at one time and another,” said Mr Boffin, ruminating; “truly wonderful.”

Related Characters: Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin (speaker), Bella, Silas Wegg, Mr. Venus
Related Symbols: Dust
Page Number: 478
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 16 Quotes

“I never was so surprised, my dear!” said her father. “I couldn’t believe my eyes. Upon my life, I thought they had taken to lying! The idea of your coming down the Lane yourself! Why didn’t you send the footman down the Lane, my dear?”

“I have brought no footman with me, Pa.”

“Oh indeed! But you have brought the elegant turn-out, my love?”

“No, Pa.”

“You never can have walked, my dear?”

“Yes, I have, Pa.”

He looked so very much astonished, that Bella could not make up her mind to break it to him just yet.

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Mr. Reginald Wilfer (speaker), John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin
Page Number: 590
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 4 Quotes

So, she leaning on her husband’s arm, they turned homeward by a rosy path which the gracious sun struck out for them in its setting. And O there are days in this life, worth life and worth death. And O what a bright old song it is, that O ‘tis love, ‘tis love, ‘tis love that makes the world go round!

Related Characters: John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Bella, Mr. Reginald Wilfer, Mrs. Wilfer
Page Number: 656
Explanation and Analysis:
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Bella Quotes in Our Mutual Friend

The Our Mutual Friend quotes below are all either spoken by Bella or refer to Bella. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Society, Class, and Character Theme Icon
).
Book 2, Chapter 8 Quotes

“And now, Pa,” pursued Bella, “I’ll make a confession to you. I am the most mercenary little wretch that ever lived in the world.”

“I should hardly have thought it of you, my dear,” returned her father, first glancing at himself; and then at the dessert.

“I understand what you mean, Pa, but it’s not that. It’s not that I care for money to keep as money, but I do care so much for what it will buy!”

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Mr. Reginald Wilfer (speaker), John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith
Page Number: 316
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 2, Chapter 9 Quotes

The doctor was quick to understand children, and, taking the horse, the ark, the yellow bird, and the man in the Guards, from Johnny’s bed, softly placed them on that of his next neighbour, the mite with the broken leg.

With a weary and yet a pleased smile, and with an action as if he stretched his little figure out to rest, the child heaved his body on the sustaining arm, and seeking Rokesmith’s face with his lips, said:

“A kiss for the boofer lady.”

Having now bequeathed all he had to dispose of, and arranged his affairs in this world, Johnny, thus speaking, left it.

Related Characters: Johnny (speaker), Bella, Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, Old Mr. Harmon, Betty Higden
Page Number: 327
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 4 Quotes

“I have hoped and trusted not too, Pa; but every day he changes for the worse, and for the worse. Not to me—he is always much the same to me—but to others about him. Before my eyes he grows suspicious, capricious, hard, tyrannical, unjust. If ever a good man were ruined by good fortune, it is my benefactor. And yet, Pa, think how terrible the fascination of money is! I see this, and hate this, and dread this, and don’t know but that money might make a much worse change in me. And yet I have money always in my thoughts and my desires; and the whole life I place before myself is money, money, money, and what money can make of life!”

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, Fascination Fledgeby, Mr. Reginald Wilfer
Page Number: 455
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 6 Quotes

“Do you like what Wegg’s been a-reading?”

Mr Venus answered that he found it extremely interesting.

“Then come again,” said Mr Boffin, “and hear some more. Come when you like; come the day after to-morrow, half an hour sooner. There’s plenty more; there’s no end to it.”

Mr Venus expressed his acknowledgments and accepted the invitation.

“It’s wonderful what’s been hid, at one time and another,” said Mr Boffin, ruminating; “truly wonderful.”

Related Characters: Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin (speaker), Bella, Silas Wegg, Mr. Venus
Related Symbols: Dust
Page Number: 478
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 3, Chapter 16 Quotes

“I never was so surprised, my dear!” said her father. “I couldn’t believe my eyes. Upon my life, I thought they had taken to lying! The idea of your coming down the Lane yourself! Why didn’t you send the footman down the Lane, my dear?”

“I have brought no footman with me, Pa.”

“Oh indeed! But you have brought the elegant turn-out, my love?”

“No, Pa.”

“You never can have walked, my dear?”

“Yes, I have, Pa.”

He looked so very much astonished, that Bella could not make up her mind to break it to him just yet.

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Mr. Reginald Wilfer (speaker), John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin
Page Number: 590
Explanation and Analysis:
Book 4, Chapter 4 Quotes

So, she leaning on her husband’s arm, they turned homeward by a rosy path which the gracious sun struck out for them in its setting. And O there are days in this life, worth life and worth death. And O what a bright old song it is, that O ‘tis love, ‘tis love, ‘tis love that makes the world go round!

Related Characters: John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Bella, Mr. Reginald Wilfer, Mrs. Wilfer
Page Number: 656
Explanation and Analysis: