I Will Always Write Back

I Will Always Write Back

by

Caitlin Alifirenka, Martin Ganda, and Liz Welch

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Anne Neville is Caitlin and Richie’s mother, and she eventually becomes part of a surrogate “American family” for the Zimbabwean boy Martin Ganda. From the beginning, Anne supports Caitlin’s correspondence with Martin, although she worries after she learns that Caitlin has been sending Martin money. Ultimately, however, Anne becomes a big supporter of Martin and his family, helping to pay for his education in Zimbabwe (which, due to inflation, isn’t very expensive in U.S. dollars). Anne also helps Caitlin send care packages to Martin’s family, one of which includes Martin’s mother’s first ever pair of shoes. When Martin wants to go to college at a U.S. university, Anne takes on a lot of responsibility for helping him—in part because she wants Caitlin to be able to focus on her own schooling, rather than having to worry about Martin’s too. She even helps out Martin’s friend Wallace, who is having a hard time adjusting to his new life at an American university. Ultimately, Anne is able to help Martin get a full ride to Villanova, making it possible for Martin to fly to the United States and meet his “American family” for the first time. Anne shows how parents can help their children grow by supporting their ambitions, even when these ambitions seem unusual.

Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville) Quotes in I Will Always Write Back

The I Will Always Write Back quotes below are all either spoken by Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville) or refer to Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville). For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Part 3: Caitlin, November 1999 Quotes

Reading that letter brought tears to my eyes. He was so proud. He had never asked me for help. Asking my parents for help was probably one of the hardest things for him to have to do. He did not want to burden me. He knew that I would get sick worrying about him in such need. But there it was, written on paper, a huge SOS. My parents knew I had a pen pal in Zimbabwe, but they did not know how close we had become. That evening, I decided to tell them everything. It was the only way I could truly help Martin.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Martin Ganda, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz)
Page Number: 140
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Part 3: Martin, November 1999 Quotes

And then, like magic, a letter arrived.

This one, however, had been ripped and taped back up in a crude way. Someone had written in capital letters INSPECTED FOR CONTRABAND across Caitlin’s beautiful penmanship. It felt like a violation.

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville)
Page Number: 153
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Part 4: Caitlin, March 2001 Quotes

Damon was different from the guys I dated in middle school. He was more mature, and sensitive. I understood why when I met his dad. He had MS and was in a wheelchair as a result. That meant he needed full-time care to do anything from eat to go to the bathroom. Damon’s mom took care of his dad, and basically let her kids fend for themselves.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Damon
Page Number: 252
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Part 4: Caitlin, April 2001 Quotes

The day after my birthday, my mom took me out of school to go get my learner’s permit. Damon met me at the DMV—he had skipped school, but lied to my mom when she asked him why he had the day off.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Martin Ganda, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Damon
Page Number: 262
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Part 4: Martin, July 2001 Quotes

Hours later, a nurse confirmed it was malaria—thankfully not cerebral. She needed IV fluids immediately. She was so dehydrated that she was at risk of dying without them. But the hospital couldn’t afford to supply any medicine. Instead, the nurse told us what we needed, and then we had to secure it.

“There is a man outside wearing a blue shirt,” she said. “He sells IVs.”

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Martin’s Mother (Chioniso Ganda), Nation
Page Number: 267
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Part 5: Caitlin, September 2001 Quotes

I started connecting all the pieces: My dad worked for the government; he was at a military base; the Pentagon had been hit. I jumped to the impossible notion: My dad may be dead. I shook my head. That was preposterous. But then I remembered the fire I saw in the sky on the TV earlier that morning. That seemed impossible too.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Richie, Damon
Page Number: 278
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Part 5: Martin, June 2002 Quotes

I was surprised to receive a letter from Caitlin’s mom. In it she offered to help me navigate the complicated American college admission process. I was so happy to hear this. It was further proof that Caitlin was not the only angel in this family.

Anne asked me if I had ever heard of the SATs. I had, in fact, because my good friend Wallace had taken them earlier that year. He, too, was planning to go to school in the States that September.

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz)
Page Number: 290
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Part 6: Caitlin, June 2003 Quotes

Today was different.

“We’d better start thinking about how to break it to him,” she said, her voice barely a whisper.

Related Characters: Martin Ganda, Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville)
Page Number: 355
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Part 6: Martin, July 2003 Quotes

The first line of the email was like rocket fuel:

We are pleased to offer you a full scholarship beginning with the 2003-2004 academic year.

It propelled me from my seat. The breath I’d been holding for the past few months came barreling out of my mouth as I shouted, “Yesssssss!”

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville)
Page Number: 359
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Epilogue: Caitlin, October 2015 Quotes

I have no idea what any of these young people will do with the emotions our story stirred in each of them—but I am excited by the possibilities. It’s why I wanted to write this book.

Kindness is contagious. It changes lives. It changed mine. What will it do for you?

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Martin Ganda, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Martin’s Father (George Ganda), Martin’s Mother (Chioniso Ganda), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Lois
Page Number: 396
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Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville) Quotes in I Will Always Write Back

The I Will Always Write Back quotes below are all either spoken by Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville) or refer to Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville). For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Kindness and Generosity Theme Icon
).
Part 3: Caitlin, November 1999 Quotes

Reading that letter brought tears to my eyes. He was so proud. He had never asked me for help. Asking my parents for help was probably one of the hardest things for him to have to do. He did not want to burden me. He knew that I would get sick worrying about him in such need. But there it was, written on paper, a huge SOS. My parents knew I had a pen pal in Zimbabwe, but they did not know how close we had become. That evening, I decided to tell them everything. It was the only way I could truly help Martin.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Martin Ganda, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz)
Page Number: 140
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 3: Martin, November 1999 Quotes

And then, like magic, a letter arrived.

This one, however, had been ripped and taped back up in a crude way. Someone had written in capital letters INSPECTED FOR CONTRABAND across Caitlin’s beautiful penmanship. It felt like a violation.

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville)
Page Number: 153
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 4: Caitlin, March 2001 Quotes

Damon was different from the guys I dated in middle school. He was more mature, and sensitive. I understood why when I met his dad. He had MS and was in a wheelchair as a result. That meant he needed full-time care to do anything from eat to go to the bathroom. Damon’s mom took care of his dad, and basically let her kids fend for themselves.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Damon
Page Number: 252
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 4: Caitlin, April 2001 Quotes

The day after my birthday, my mom took me out of school to go get my learner’s permit. Damon met me at the DMV—he had skipped school, but lied to my mom when she asked him why he had the day off.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Martin Ganda, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Damon
Page Number: 262
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 4: Martin, July 2001 Quotes

Hours later, a nurse confirmed it was malaria—thankfully not cerebral. She needed IV fluids immediately. She was so dehydrated that she was at risk of dying without them. But the hospital couldn’t afford to supply any medicine. Instead, the nurse told us what we needed, and then we had to secure it.

“There is a man outside wearing a blue shirt,” she said. “He sells IVs.”

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Martin’s Mother (Chioniso Ganda), Nation
Page Number: 267
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 5: Caitlin, September 2001 Quotes

I started connecting all the pieces: My dad worked for the government; he was at a military base; the Pentagon had been hit. I jumped to the impossible notion: My dad may be dead. I shook my head. That was preposterous. But then I remembered the fire I saw in the sky on the TV earlier that morning. That seemed impossible too.

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Richie, Damon
Page Number: 278
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 5: Martin, June 2002 Quotes

I was surprised to receive a letter from Caitlin’s mom. In it she offered to help me navigate the complicated American college admission process. I was so happy to hear this. It was further proof that Caitlin was not the only angel in this family.

Anne asked me if I had ever heard of the SATs. I had, in fact, because my good friend Wallace had taken them earlier that year. He, too, was planning to go to school in the States that September.

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz)
Page Number: 290
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 6: Caitlin, June 2003 Quotes

Today was different.

“We’d better start thinking about how to break it to him,” she said, her voice barely a whisper.

Related Characters: Martin Ganda, Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville)
Page Number: 355
Explanation and Analysis:
Part 6: Martin, July 2003 Quotes

The first line of the email was like rocket fuel:

We are pleased to offer you a full scholarship beginning with the 2003-2004 academic year.

It propelled me from my seat. The breath I’d been holding for the past few months came barreling out of my mouth as I shouted, “Yesssssss!”

Related Characters: Martin Ganda (speaker), Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville)
Page Number: 359
Explanation and Analysis:
Epilogue: Caitlin, October 2015 Quotes

I have no idea what any of these young people will do with the emotions our story stirred in each of them—but I am excited by the possibilities. It’s why I wanted to write this book.

Kindness is contagious. It changes lives. It changed mine. What will it do for you?

Related Characters: Caitlin Stoicsitz Alifirenka (speaker), Martin Ganda, Caitlin’s Mom (Anne Neville), Martin’s Father (George Ganda), Martin’s Mother (Chioniso Ganda), Caitlin’s Dad (Richard Stoicsitz), Lois
Page Number: 396
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