Unaccustomed Earth

by

Jhumpa Lahiri

Unaccustomed Earth: 4. Only Goodness Summary & Analysis

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When Sudha gives her little brother, Rahul, beer for the first time, he thinks it’s repulsive. But by the following summer, she’s regularly buying him six-packs, divvying up the cans between their bedrooms so Sudha’s parents won’t find the contraband. Academically gifted, Rahul skipped a grade, beginning Cornell at just 17, much to his Bengali parents’ delight. Though Sudha has found success herself, earning a master’s in international relations, she’s always had to work harder than Rahul to achieve it. Rahul’s achievements, on the other hand, have always seemed effortless. In high school, she never rebelled against her parents or lied—but Rahul was always more impervious to their control, and he lied often.
Sudha’s introduction of beer to Rahul marks the start of his habitual underage drinking. Despite her own academic success, she remains in her younger brother’s shadow, a dynamic that contributes to her lifelong struggle for her parents’ approval. Her enabling Rahul’s drinking to protect him from their Bengali parents’ disappointment suggests a maternal concern, but it sets a dangerous precedent that contributes to his growing alcohol dependence and rebellion.
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During Rahul’s first Christmas home from college, he asks Sudha to buy him more alcohol. She’s surprised, figuring he’d left that behind in high school. Reluctantly, she agrees, purchasing the beer and vodka he requests and hiding the drinks between their bedrooms, like they used to. Whereas relics from Sudha’s own childhood were lost during the family’s move from London to Wayland, Massachusetts before Rahul was born, his youth is carefully preserved in photographs and keepsakes—mostly thanks to Sudha. Six years older, she doted on him from the start, but a part of her always envied her brother’s intellect, beauty, and detachment from Sudha’s parents.
When Rahul asks for more alcohol, Sudha is disappointed. She ultimately recognizes her complicity and is unable to say no, further contributing to his growing dependency. The siblings’ different adolescent experiences deepen Sudha’s resentment and sense of displacement within her family. Her lifelong devotion to Rahul despite her envy reflects her dual identity as both empathetic nurturer and overlooked sibling.
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Sudha has always shown more deference to Sudha’s parents than Rahul, who tends to criticize and judge their lives. By the next summer, while Sudha has been accepted to the London School of Economics for her second master’s degree, Rahul’s grades have slipped from Bs to Cs, and his attitude is increasingly cold and resentful. Sudha senses that her little brother no longer looks up to her like he once did, and she knows her parents are upset with him for squandering his potential for seemingly no reason. When she tries to talk to him, he swiftly shuts his big sister out, angry at her constant need to interfere in his life.
Rahul’s parents’ open disappointment further drives a wedge between him and Sudha, and he slowly begins to break away from the family. This dynamic illustrates a reversal in how Rahul views Sudha: he now bitterly alienates the big sister he once admired. By detaching from the most meaningful people and parts of his life, Rahul embarks on a path to self-destruction that Sudha can’t protect him from, no matter how hard she tries.
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Before Sudha leaves for London, her family takes her out to dinner, where Rahul seems happy and engaged with Sudha’s parents for the first time in ages. Late that same night, while his family is at home asleep, Rahul is arrested for drunk driving. When Sudha and her father bail him out of jail, her father is stoic and silent, uttering not one word to Rahul on the way home. The next day, Sudha tells her parents that Rahul has a drinking problem, and though it seems that her father agrees, her mother is defensive, claiming the police merely overreacted.
Just as Rahul seems to be improving, he shocks his family by being arrested. Sudha is tired of tiptoeing around Rahul’s alcoholism, the unaddressed elephant in the room. However, the fact that Sudha’s mother denies his drinking problem even after his arrest and continuously poor academic performance reveals the extent of her denial. Sudha is the only family member willing to speak the difficult truth—a frustrating position that she finds herself in increasingly often.
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After his arrest, Rahul’s driver’s license is temporarily revoked, and Sudha’s parents are forced to pay $2,000 in fees. Now living in London, Sudha feels at home in a way she never has elsewhere, attributing her natural comfort to her being born there and to her parents’ positive experiences in the city. One day, while observing van Eyck’s The Arnolfini Marriage painting in a museum, she meets Roger Featherstone. A magazine editor with a PhD in art history, Roger tells Sudha about the painting, and she admires his intellect. They begin dating. Sudha likes Roger primarily because he’s as “competent” and restrained as she believes she is.
In London, away from the drama of her family, Sudha is allowed to breathe, truly discovering herself and feeling at home for the first time. When she meets Roger, she’s drawn to his intelligence. His scholarly, composed nature reinforces her desire for a relationship free from the chaos that has long defined her bond with Rahul. Examining The Arnolfini Marriage, Sudha desires a partnership that mirrors the stable, respectful union she perceives in the painting itself.
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Sudha doesn’t return to spend Christmas with her family in Wayland, opting to take a trip to Seville with Roger instead. Sudha’s parents call and ask her to speak to Rahul, who is now failing out of Cornell and constantly moody, though she hasn’t talked to her brother in months. When she calls him, he acts like they’re still as close as ever, immediately complaining about their parents’ “hysteria” over his poor academic performance. He tells Sudha he wants to drop out and write a play, but when she explains that their parents will never allow it, he hangs up on her.
As Sudha and Roger’s relationship deepens, Sudha maintains distance—physical and emotional—from her family. For so long, she has carried the brunt of her family’s emotional burdens, often solely responsible for resolving conflicts and holding everyone together. Now, with her own life to worry about in London, she’s moved away from that role. She tries to reason with her brother, but he’s too detached and dismissive to listen to her as he once did.
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In April, Sudha returns for a visit to Wayland, newly engaged. Upon her arrival, she learns that Rahul was formally dismissed from Cornell and now lives at home with his and Sudha’s parents. He eventually finds work at a laundromat, a job that embarrasses his parents, who were once so proud of their academically advanced son. In the summer, Roger flies to Massachusetts to meet Sudha’s family, though he makes it clear to her beforehand that he intends to maintain firm boundaries with her parents. The visit is smooth, but Sudha discovers that her brother, though now 22, is still drinking alcohol in secret. Her concern for him grows.
Immediately confronted with Rahul’s worsening situation upon her return home, Sudha is once more pulled into her family’s emotional turmoil. However, Roger’s insistence on maintaining boundaries with Sudha’s family forces her to re-examine how she balances support for them with her new relationship. The pressure to manage Rahul’s wellbeing still weighs on Sudha, putting her in a difficult position as she tries to honor Roger’s requests while also worrying for her brother.
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Sudha and Roger decide to marry in London and hold a small reception in Wayland that fall. Sudha arrives a few days before Roger for the reception, staying with her family. When Rahul shows up with his new fiancée, a 30-year-old aspiring actress named Elena, Sudha’s parents are stunned. Sudha’s father, who is typically silent, firmly states that Rahul cannot marry Elena, and Rahul storms out. Sudha’s parents ask if Sudha could move her wedding reception to a venue without a bar, hoping to curb Rahul’s drinking. Frustrated, Sudha refuses, feeling it’s unfair that she’s always expected to “fix” her family’s problems.
As Sudha prepares for her wedding reception, her frustration with her family’s constant demands reaches a breaking point. She resents the lifelong expectation that it’s her job fix her family’s issues and mediate between her parents and Rahul. This moment marks a significant personal shift for Sudha, as she asserts her autonomy and refuses to sacrifice her happiness to shield her family from Rahul’s ongoing struggles.
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At Sudha and Roger’s reception, Rahul makes a drunken toast that ends with his father forcing him off the stage and Rahul fleeing the venue. On her honeymoon, Sudha feels her reception is forever tainted by her brother’s display, and she doesn’t know how to forgive him. In a lukewarm attempt to console her, Roger chalks it up to Rahul being “young” and going through a rough patch. Not long after, Rahul suddenly disappears, leaving behind no note or explanation for Sudha’s parents. He steals his mother’s gold jewelry and takes a bus out of town, mailing a letter one week later telling his family that he wants to be alone.
Rahul’s drunken outburst devastates Sudha, casting a shadow over an event she had hoped would be joyful and unblemished. Her pain is only intensified by her new husband’s dismissive attitude, as he reduces Rahul’s alcoholism to youthful rebellion. When Rahul vanishes, his theft of their mother’s jewelry and silent departure feel like a final rejection of familial ties.
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Sudha falls pregnant shortly after her honeymoon, giving birth to a baby boy named Neel. She thinks about Rahul often but slowly gets used to no longer having her brother in her life. Sudha’s parents, too, grow accustomed to the void left by their absent son, consoled in part by Neel, whom they visit in London often and love like he’s their own. When Neel is 10 months old, Sudha receives a letter from Rahul—he’s sober now and living with Elena not far from their parents’ home in Wayland, working as a line cook. Sudha immediately writes back, inviting him to London and informing him that he’s an uncle.
With Rahul’s self-destruction no longer an active part of Sudha’s and her parents’ lives, they are eventually able to adjust and move forward. Neel’s birth helps with this transition, giving Sudha’s parents a new child to fuss over and love, as well as a reason to travel to London. Though Sudha’s life is in many ways easier without Rahul, the moment she reads his letter, she doesn’t hesitate to invite him over, demonstrating her enduring love for her baby brother.
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When Rahul arrives at Sudha’s London doorstep, she feels like a missing part of herself has come home. He’s put on weight and grown long sideburns, and he’s quickly enamored with Neel. Sudha gives him a tour, and Rahul observes the recently framed photos of his and Sudha’s parents holding their new grandson. He tells Sudha about Elena’s daughter, Crystal, who treats him like a surrogate father. Later that evening, Sudha informs Rahul of their parents’ plans to move to Calcutta and their father’s struggle with an inflamed knee. Rahul asks about the family’s Christmas plans, and Sudha invites him, Elena, and Crystal to spend it with their parents here in London, doubtful Rahul will come.
Sudha is warmed by Rahul’s affection for Neel and his stories of taking on a fatherly role with Elena’s daughter, which hint at his maturation and genuine desire for growth. Though half-hearted, Sudha’s invitation for Christmas reveals her hesitant hope that this family reunion might offer Rahul a fresh start, even as she questions whether he’s actually ready to reconnect with their parents.
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All week, Rahul follows a steady routine: a long morning run, followed by coffee and sightseeing. In the evenings, he returns to Sudha’s for dinner and playtime with Neel. The night before he’s scheduled to leave, he suggests that Sudha and Roger go out to a movie while he watches Neel at home. Sudha feels uneasy about leaving her son with Rahul even for a couple hours, but Roger—ignorant to the full extent of Rahul’s alcoholism—urges her to trust him, saying they deserve a night out. Halfway through the movie, Sudha slips out to call Rahul and check in. He reassures her that everything is fine, easing her nerves.
Over the week, Rahul blends seamlessly into Sudha’s family routines and bonds with Neel even better than she’d expected. His offer to babysit suggests his desire to regain Sudha’s trust, and because Sudha always tries to see the best version of her little brother, she gives him a chance. Ultimately, this scene encapsulates her conflicted feelings about his recovery—she hopes for a change while fearing he might fall short.
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When Sudha and Roger return home, they discover Neel playing alone in a partially filled bathtub, and Rahul passed out in Roger’s study. They struggle to wake him, and an argument erupts between the couple. Sudha confesses to her brother’s alcoholism. Furious, Roger bans Rahul from their home indefinitely, and though it breaks her heart, Sudha agrees. The next morning, Rahul, hungover and oblivious to the danger he’d put Neel in, insists it was a one-time relapse. But Sudha, exhausted and defeated, stands firm. She puts him in a cab, relieved that Neel is still too young to understand his uncle’s faults.
As Sudha finds that her alcoholic brother has left her infant son unattended in the bathtub, she’s forced to confront the chronic danger and instability Rahul’s alcoholism yields. She recognizes now that her role has shifted: her duty is no longer to protect her brother, but instead to protect her son. In sending Rahul away, Sudha takes a difficult, necessary step in her own emotional journey, accepting that she cannot control or “fix” her little brother—that responsibility rests with Rahul alone.
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